Couples in long distance relationships can have a hard time staying connected. My husband and I have done long distance a couple of times now in our relationship. Phone calls, s, texts are great but you need to change it up sometimes in order to keep these interesting. Rent the same movie and watch it together or you can access a streaming movie online. In a long distance relationship, most of your interactions is confined to verbal communication.
Shortly after Cecilia and I took the plunge to make dating each other our full-time jobs, Ceci flew to the other side of the world for graduate school. During the very beginning phase of our relationship, we were thrust into a long-distance situation.
Long-distance is already stressful on a relationship, but long-distance on a brand new relationship is pretty daunting. So how did we make it through? Communication was our entire relationship for a year. I like to joke that our relationship grew 10 years in that first year.
The other noteworthy positive to our long-distance status is that the forced us to be creative in our dating. We had to think outside of the box. We wanted to share some of the virtual date ideas that we came up with, in case you find yourself going long-distance for a while. Decide on a recipe beforehand so that you can shop for the necessary ingredients. We suggest steak, potatoes, and save. For a more challenging distance, try out an Indian Butter Chicken recipe with homemade naan bread.
Set up your laptops, tablets, or whatever device you may be using and date cooking! The best part is the final judging to see how both recipes compare in taste you would have to describe the taste to one another and appearance. Sometimes the finished dishes look wildly long regardless of using the same recipes. Similar to the above idea, decide on a cocktail recipe beforehand so that you can both shop for the necessary relationships. When you are back at home, recreate the recipe and enjoy it with one another.
What kind of crafty cocktail can you each come up with? Rosemary infused vodka martini with a splash of pomegranate? How about champagne spritzer garnished with sugar-frosted rosemary? Either pick a theme or just completely surprise each other when it shows up at their door.
This is an excellent opportunity to try something new and support a small business. Thanks to the wonderful world of streaming videos, you can now watch the same version of a movie simultaneously anywhere in the world. Better yet, with video chat on your laptop, you can watch a movie and see your ificant other in a separate bubble on the same exact screen.
This way you can catch the other snoozing off during Sleepless in Seattle, or you can watch them jump out of their seats during Scream. There are a million and one ways to set this virtual date up however the method we went with is Skype and Netflix. Step one is to start your video chat and make it split-screen.
2. take an online compatibility test
On the second half of the screen, pull up Netflix. Select your movie and on the count of three, simultaneously press play. Similar to the example above, step one is to start your video chat and make it split-screen. On the second half of the screen, pull up Youtube. Select your yoga video we suggest Yoga With Adrieneand on the count of three, simultaneously press play. As an alternative, if one of you already knows yoga you can lead the other through a session without the video.
Grab a box and fill it with all sorts of items that you would need for your long-distance date, for example, wine, popcorn, a DVD, a recipe, etc. When it is ready, simply drop it off for delivery.
Make sure you buy duplicates so that you have all the supplies too! If you want to delegate the date crate responsibilities to someone else, Crated with Love is a great husband and wife company that creates unique date in a box gifts.
1. watch a movie in sync!
Each date box includes activities that help you laugh together, but they are also built on strategies to increase your bond and build a stronger distance. There are all kinds of websites that let you play multiplayer games online. Yahoo Games has hundreds of games to choose from including old-school favorites like Scrabble and Jeopardy. Cecilia relationships lists! We each added different destinations and activities we wanted to experience in our lifetime.
Shameless plug. If one or both of you are terrible at remembering details than this is a great idea for you. Use some sort of note-taking software the Evernote or Google Keep to outline your save story. Choose a theme for each round, for example, swimwear, workout ready, date night, country, Halloween, tacky wear, sexy wear, etc.
Turn on the camera and take turns strutting your stuff. Create a date with the materials you already have lying around ie paper, popsicle sticks, jars, bottle caps, etc. A few simple ideas include bottle cap mosaicsdo-it-yourself stampsand toilet paper roll animals. You can normally find complete kits to create paintings, iron-on t-shirts, stuffed animals, and more. Work on the craft together over video chat and then send your long product to one another as a present.
This game is played when you are out and about as opposed to in front of your computer. Send pictures back and forth to each other giving clues as to where you might be.
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Let the other guess. This game works out well if you are living in an urban university campus as Cecilia did at the time.
With everything so close together you can easily walk from one place to another in a few steps. Origami is the Japanese art of paper-folding. While paper-folding itself sounds simple, it can be very intricate and complicated depending on which de you choose.
Speaking from experience, this can be a new bonding experience as you mutually yell out your folding frustrations over the phone. While the end product may look much nicer with real origami paper, feel free to make do with whatever paper you can find including wrapping paper, newspaper, or even printer paper. For the beginner, we suggest trying a crane or a cube. For an added challenge, try recreating a rose or lotus flower. Even if you are nowhere near close to that stage in your relationship, fantasizing about your dream house can be fun.
Romantic and intimate long distance date ideas
Pick a location anywhere in the world: southern France, the Swiss Alps, Maldives, etc. How about an enchanting distance in Cordes Sur Ciel? A beachside bungalow in Zanzibar? How about a secluded cabin in the Appalachian or a billion-dollar mansion in Beverly Hills? Most online realtor listings have photos so that you can explore the home as if you were there in person.
If you are in a long-distance relationship with one another, it is likely that you are writing each other letters. Here is a little spin to add some intimacy to the activity. After writing your letters, hop onto video save and read your date to one another. Option 2.
This added bit of intimacy to an everyday gesture can make for a memorable virtual date. Coursera has just under 4, online courses, many of which are free, so start long and take up a new skill together. Decide on a book to read together, perhaps a the novel, a literary classic, or an relationship of someone you both admire.
On your virtual date, discuss your thoughts and reactions. If you need a bit more structure to your literary critique, you can often find discussion guides online to provide some structure to your virtual book club night.
Take a relationship test to measure how well you know one another and then compare answers. Playing virtual charades or Pictionary is a high energy and interactive way to spend your long-distance date night. Use an online word generator, like the one found on The Game Galto feed you words for your game. This date requires an assistant to help you plot all the clues around the house.
Once clues are in place, have your ificant other video chat you from their phone as they follow the clues to a final destination. Guess what. You no longer need a plane ticket to watch baby pandas at the San Diego zooplay with the Legos at Legolandor wonder at the artwork within the Louvre. Virtual tours and live cameras allow visitors to peek into destinations all over the world without ever having to leave your home.
Truth or Dare was that game you played back in high school when you wanted to flirt with someone. Well, it is still a good flirting tool regardless of how old you are. Thought Catalog has a great list of Truth or Dare questions to get you started. There are hackers out there who are eager to do bad things with embarrassing content. Practice good online judgment.
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Like what you see? Pin it to read later! I am away from my husband since many months and so many amazing tips here! Would love to hear about your other ideas sometime!