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Originally Posted by TeddyRoosevelt. Bad idea. Don't do it.
No upside. Its too sttong of a gesture too soon.
Third date a flower?
The money is irrelevant. You don't want her thinking she's already got you Ya, I'm kind of in the same boat.
This girl I've been seeing is treating me so well that I want to do nice things for her, but sometimes it can be too much too soon. I'm assuming this is the girl you're taking to the gators game, so I would suggest if it feels right getting her something while you guys are out.
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Could be anything, a small stuffed gator or something, just so she can look at it once in a while and remember that great outing she had with you. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare.
Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.
Originally Posted by Stix I see the idea of what you are doing, but I think flowers are a bit much this soon. If you want to let her know you are really grooving on this thing with her, do something not so traditional. After the 6th or so date and you guys know eachother on a more personal level, leave her good morning texts, short and sweet, or if she really likes avocados spare me send her a silly picture message during lunch of an avocado with googly eyes or something harmless like that.
The idea is to make an effort, without making it look like you made an effort. Even when you get into the deeper stages of dating, harmless flirting is essential. It's such a strange scientific thing. Flowers are endearing after she gets to know you and you guys are moving into girlfriend boyfriend stage.
Giving a girl flowers on a second date?
It's just too soon to start doing that stuff right now. This is just kind of a guide line, you really have to feel her figuratively haha to see what level you guys are at. Some people hit it off and are like soul mates the first 2 dates, some people like each other but take a good 2 months to warm up to each other. Red roses represent love and are very cliche. Do not get a bouquet, this is also over doing it.
A good rule of thumb is to get a single flower or a bouquet of 3 single flowers that are not roses, and are light in color. Pay attention to what kind of flowers she says she likes and buy her one of those. I know it sounds so unnecessary but women really do date and understand those subtleties. Ultimately only you will flower how you should go third this, but I can tell you 9 times out of 10, flowers on the 3rd date is pushing it, and no matter how much a girl likes you,if she senses you made 'plans' without her,she will retreat.
Warning: Don't be a total creep and find out where she works and scope out her car and leave it in her windshield.
That is weird. If she does take to your advances, and you guys end up getting together, don't stop getting her little flowers, and doing silly things like that, it keeps the relationship fresh. I hope I'm not too late. Supplement Wars!
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